So yesterday we talked about the definition of gospel. Today we’re going to be talking about a practical way that the Lord has been working that out in my daily life.
But first. News flash: I’m a sinner {Romans 3:23}. I know that very well. I know what I am and what I am capable of apart from Christ. But in Christ, I am a saint whose heart has been regenerated and who is being sanctified on a daily basis. “But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ–by grace you have been saved.” {Ephesians 2:4-5}.
True story. I’m a saint that has been made alive. Yet sin continues to pop up in my heart on a daily basis. And where it does, I find grace. “Where sin increased, grace abounded all the more {Romans 5:20}. Previously I was blind to grace. Instead of accepting the free gift of grace, I would choose to waffle in guilt, self-condemnation, and self-loathing when any sin would surface. I didn’t know what to do with my sin. Even as a Christian!
That’s because I was on the crazy religious cycle.
Let me give you the Reader’s Digest background story: At some point in my early Christian life I started trying to earn God’s love and favor. I started trying to pay Him back for saving me and for all of the amazing things that He had done in my life. I felt like He had done enough for me on the cross and that it was a one time gift that I had already “redeemed” when I was saved. I did not understand that the cross was applicable to every day of my life. And…
Deep down, I just couldn’t accept that His grace was free and endless.
This crazy cycle continued for probably 7 years, friends. To the point where I decided I was done with God because I was tired. My religiosity had me on a roller coaster of highs and lows. When I perceived myself to be “doing well” and walking with Jesus I was extremely prideful. When I failed, I despaired. It was one or the other. Up. Down. Up. Down. He’s pleased with me. He hates me. He’s pleased with me. He hates me.
My relationship with my Father became an exhausting, never-ending petal-picking, “He loves me, He loves me not” distorted mess.
Three years ago when we started going to Mars Hill, I began to get a different message. A gospel message of grace. I was still a sinner. That was clear. And it was preached {thank God}. But there was always this message of grace that went along with it. There was this focus on the gospel and it’s impact on the here and now {not just my moment of salvation}. So seeds of gospel truth began to be planted. I had a lot that I needed to work through. Years of distortions, half-truths, and bold-faced lies from my enemy. But about eleven months ago the power of the gospel really started to resonate.
The more that I accepted that I was a sinner that sinned daily, the more I understood and appreciated daily grace.
Here’s what happens when we get gospel grace: we FALL IN LOVE with Jesus. We WORSHIP Jesus. We DRAW NEAR to Jesus. There’s no more pride from earning it ourselves because we get that we did NOTHING {Ephesians 2:8-9} and He did EVERYTHING {Colossians 2:13-14}. There’s no more despair from falling short, because we get that we have put on His righteousness, and His perfect record. The Father looks at me and sees Jesus. What?
There is joy. There is hope. There is peace. Friend, I love Jesus. It’s His kindness that leads me to repentance {Romans 2:4}. On a daily basis. Because His mercies are new every morning. “The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness” {Lamentations 3:22-23}.
So let’s get to it already, McKenzie. Am I right? Or am I right?
Here it is. Here’s my practical example. About two weeks ago I brought my schedule before Jesus. I was feeling tremendously convicted that I needed to repent of my selfishness. He’s showed me that FREE TIME was my idol as well as control of my schedule. It was rooted in fear that if I really surrender my schedule to Jesus I’ll lose all personal freedom and rest. I’ll have no time for myself, for my marriage, and even {get this} quiet time {note that I put myself first on the list}.
So that has practically played itself out in making excuses about spending time with people. It has played itself out in wanting to stay in more than go out with my husband {which is discouraging to him}. It has played itself out in days of complete and total laziness and waste. I was not being faithful with the things I was called to: my marriage, our ministry, our home, my coaching business, my blog, or my relationships. Yikes.
Historically this realization would have broken me. I would have spiraled into a deep despair and a season of walking away from/hiding from the Lord. I failed again. He was disappointed in me.
This time I repented in joy with hope of promised grace and newness of life.
Here’s my journal entry from November 30th:
“God’s disposition toward me does not change from one day to the next.” -B.B. Warfield
“I feel like you have given me this over-abundance of time in my schedule and free time has become my idol. I will sin to protect it. I have been lazy, I’ve lied and made excuses, I haven’t loved/helped/served my husband well or others and I’ve been miserable. I’ve been a recluse. I want to give my time to you (FREELY…NOT OUT OF OBLIGATION), and I ask that you lead me and show me where and how and what that looks like. Help me to be faithful now where you have me with the things and people you’ve placed in my life. Ignite a passion and a fervor by the power of your Holy Spirit and equip/enable/sustain me to persevere. Fill me with the passion and energy to do your will faithfully to YOUR GLORY, not my own. I surrender to you and thank you for forgiving me of my idolatry and selfishness and fear and control. I’m yours and all I have is yours. I want to be all in.”
And then I wrote out a few excerpts from Ephesians like this:
“And you were dead…
BUT GOD
made us alive together with Christ…
SO THAT
he might show the immeasurable riches of his GRACE in kindness.”
And then I closed my journal and moved on, friend. Free. No condemnation. No self-loathing. Believing that I had received grace that day for my idolatry, selfishness, fear, and control. That day. In that moment. The gospel was relevant to me. He died so I could put that sin to death. He was raised so I could get up from the table and walk in newness of life.
And I can tell you that He has totally met me and answered my prayers. His grace brings freedom. His kindness brings me to repentance, remember? Repentance is change. A 180 degree change. I don’t change myself. The grace of the gospel changes me. It’s not my job to fix my brokenness. It’s His job and it’s already been accomplished and finished on the cross.
In the last two weeks, the Lord has given me new passion and energy to serve Him in the areas He’s called me to serve Him. I wake up early {without an alarm—a modern miracle and marvel in and of itself}. I spent time in the Word. I’m productive and get things done around the house. I’ve pressed into my role as helper to Jason and have been supporting him through prayer. I’m more organized. I have recommitted myself to my relationships and friendships {not perfectly, but better by His grace}. I feel joy when I do these things. Old desires like sitting on the couch and watching TV or napping have lost their appeal. I’m excited about seeing people and going places and doing things.
I realize how enslaved I was to my false, broken idol of free time. I was literally submitting myself to a yoke of slavery. Our idolatry ALWAYS enslaves us. By protecting my idol {and worshipping it}, I was adding chains to my own shackles and living in misery. Ironically, instead of enjoying my free time like I thought I would, my days would end with me feeling worthless. Man.
Now I am walking in freedom. I’m not submitting my schedule to Him to earn His love {and if I start to try, the Holy Spirit meets me and convicts me}. I’m not doing it out of duty or obligation. No. Instead, I get to respond to my King’s kindness with obedience in my schedule. It’s ground breaking. It’s life giving. It’s amazing.
This is the power of the gospel played out on a daily basis.
And once you’ve experienced gospel grace you do NOT want to go back to religion. You want to continue to live in the freedom that Christ died for you to have. “For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery” {Galatians 5:1}.
And when I have another lazy day or when I start to idolize free time or when I get fearful, there’s grace for that too. Available in an instant. Right then and there. There’s grace for that.
I pray for you today, friend, to know that grace. I pray for you to bring your sin before Him, believing that there is POWER in the gospel, and that your sin, whatever it may be, can be put to death RIGHT NOW, and the promise to walk in newness of life is available to you THIS VERY MOMENT. And His promises are always true and always good and always available. There is no expiration date. Not tomorrow or the next day or ten years from now or ever. So I pray for you tomorrow, friend, and the next day, and the next…to always know that very same grace.